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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your childless sister doesn't owe more to the family than you do simply because you are in the privileged position of having a husband and children. At the very least, I'd expect you to be there for the move and not make it all about you. So that means no kids while you're at the house working. If that means you need to hire a sitter to help your DH so be it. You really don't seem to have any idea day in/day out how much work goes into elder care. Take your experience as a mom of an SN child and replace your hope that he will get better with the certainty that he will not, that each day will be progressively worse until death. If your sisters are doing the heavy lifting day to day, express your gratitude, send money, and r strain from criticizing.[/quote]
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