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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think I'd try to be less wordy. When she brings up a group activity just don't commit. Say something like, "I'll keep that in mind! My main priority is for Billy to spend some quality time with my parents, so I can't commit to that right now. Would you like to come to lunch on the 19th? We'd love to have you." I think they just need a gentle reminder that this is your parent's time. [/quote] A "reminder" is recalling to someone what they already know. If MIL is "hatching plans," she clearly doesn't know that the focus should be on special time with OP's parents. It needs to be clear now for this visit and to avoid this dynamic in the future. The original suggested language was good.[/quote]
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