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[quote=Anonymous]Your post screams BPD to me. You might find some good resources online for dealing with borderline personality family members. It's really hard. I say this as someone whose brother died by suicide: you are NOT responsible for your sister's emotional health. If she dies by suicide, it would not be your fault. You are not responsible for her. you have to take care of yourself first. I have had to sacrifice my relationship with my nephews because I don't have the emotional reserves to manage my SIL with BPD. She is so manipulative, so cruel, so narcissistic, so paranoid, so completely self-centered; every interaction is fraught and awful. I fight depression and I know I can't keep myself we'll and keep her in my life every day; she sucks the life out of me. You don't need to let an emotional vampire suck you dry just because she threatens to hurt yourself if you don't give her your blood first. You need to stay alive.[/quote]
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