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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't confront him directly about the app. You're not married, and it's not clear if he was actually "hooking-up" or just window-shopping, or even just curious. I'm also not sure what the circumstances were that you were going through his cell, but that could be an issue as well. If he's gay, and in the closet, the direct confrontation route will probably just result in him making up some desperate lie. A positive outcome is unlikely when someone is caught off-guard like that. Instead, I would try to find indirect ways of figuring out what his sexuality, without seeming threatening or "judgy." As I get older, I am realizing that sexuality is not nearly as black or white as we led to believe, so try to resist the calls to just throw him into the "duh! he's gay!" bucket. Obviously, if you're exclusive, and you have reason to believe that he's shtupping other people (male or female) then you've got a problem.[/quote]
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