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[quote=Anonymous]This has happened throughout our marriage but this year, I've either seen an uptick or the decisions have gone from minor and not annoying to moderate and annoying.

Recent examples: To maintain his license to practice in the DMV, they registered as living at our address.  As a result, they got our parking stickers and I got a ticket. He fixed that but now I get dozens of catalogs each week. We don't get the mail daily b/c we can't deal with it daily. In our old life, we just got it on the weekend and rarely was it too much to fit in the box.

Second, and I just figured this one out last night, he gave them access to our netflix account. netflix has been blocking me "randomly" for months. JUST last night I figured out why. I asked DH to fix it, he refused, so I did. My FIL was defending his use of our account and I just politely told him to stop and had to tell him a few times.

I'm so pissed at being put in this position.  He tells them yes on things, then tells me, and when I object, he gets mad at me. It's pissing me off and I'm not sure how to talk to him about it.

Any positive ways to address this? BTW: He's going to be pissed that I told them to stop using netflix but I have a chronic health condition and have surgery scheduled for Friday. I need my passive entertainment working fine and frankly, he needs the second access point to entertain the kids.

Rant over, positive words requested.[/quote]

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