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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PPs who said you need to let your DH define is relationships and support him if/when he is re-traumatized by it (for me, it was when I had kids and they were the same age I was when I had my first memories of the abuse). If/when you have kids, you certainly have a say in what kind of relationship your kids have with the abuser but you haven't gotten to that point. I know you have repeatedly apologized to your fiancé but I hope you recognize that your reaction (despite the apologies) may make it less likely that he feels comfortable in discussing his experience with you. I know you didn't mean to make it more difficult but it's hard to unring that bell.[/quote]
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