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[quote=Anonymous]I'll start by saying I know he is an adult , but I don't get it.
My brother has been seeing this woman for a few months, we haven't met her,  yet,  the plan is to meet her at  mom's birthday dinner tomorrow.
Brother and I are pretty close, we talk often  and he's been gushing over her the last few months, unusual for him because my brother has been  quite the player.
Anyway, we were talking  a little bit ago, finalizing plans for mom's party ,and he oh so casually slips into the conversation the lady he's been seeing has lymphoma.
Or dad died from lymphoma just 2 years ago in September. I don't know what he's thinking. I'm worried about it and also furious. Why would he bring her around the family after everything? Why would he put himself through that again?
Apparently the girl knows about our dad and is not bothered.
I know everyone has the right to their own happiness and love.
I know even though I still think of him as my younger brother, he is almost 33 and she is 31 , they are adults and can make their own choices.
I just don't understand.
Don't really need advice.
Just needed some place to vent.
Thanks/

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