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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I could be your wife, OP.  I think I have always felt this way, but especially now that we have kids and I have some hormonal issues.

Before DH, I was in some really bad relationships.  Amazing sex and sexual attraction, but emotionally abusive.  When I met DH, I found him attractive and nice, but he didn't turn me on.   I did not think that I could have both sexual attraction and someone who was a good guy.  I wanted a good guy because I needed stability and wanted a great parent for my kids.  This all worked out great for the first few years.  Now it's taking it's toll.  I am about to start therapy again to figure it out.  Besides no sexual attraction, we get along great, have fun together, travel well together, etc.  I have brought up therapy to him, but he is against it.  So I figure I need to at least put myself in therapy b/c it's not fair to him.

Actually, I have to say, my DH is seriously like a 3rd child and that could definitely contribute to my lack of sexual attraction to him.   I need a man, not another person to pick up after. [/quote]

Wow... I could have wrote this post as well.. [/quote]

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