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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He wants sex the same way each time, and he wants it less frequently than I do.  It's too much work to make me orgasm.  He's gained 40 pounds since we got married.  I do 90% of everything and he "helps" me with the kids, house, finances, etc. instead of being an equal partner. [b]He's a beta, not an alpha.[/b][/quote]

Can you elaborate on that last point?  The rest of it seems to be easily fixed, but the last item indicates that there is more to it.   [/quote]

He's not a leader. He's happy for anyone else to do the planning and the work. He doesn't initiate any kind of physical contact, sexual or otherwise. It's hard to be consistently attracted to a man who doesn't take the initiative and is not high energy and is complacent at work. His love language is spending time together, but that's not mine. I like a guy who is assertive and has a plan for life.[/quote]'

Yes!  This exactly![/quote]

Another +1 from another DW.[/quote]

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