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[quote=Anonymous]DS is 11 and hopes to be bar mitzvahed. I say hopes because we literally have no funds to pay for a party. We don't even belong to a synagogue but he does attend a religious school and has learned some hebrew. Has anybody done the following (or been to one like I'm proposing)?

The plan is to have a very tiny private ceremony at a restaurant followed by a lunch just for immediate family and very close aunts/uncles/cousins. We're talking maybe 30 family members. The grandparents have offered to host the meal only, no entertainment. Think private room not renting out the restaurant.

We would like to have a separate casual celebration for about 25 kids that evening.  I think we can swing a budget of $1000 for the kids party. Obviously we can't afford a DJ or lavish menu. It will be super relaxed but hopefully incorporate a fun kids activity. We've heard of some people even doing bowling.

Is this ok? Is it weird to only invite friends to the party and not the ceremony? Since the ceremony is with the lunch I feel funny having kids attend and leave. The lunch will be no fun for the kids (just food and no entertainment).

We want DS to celebrate his special day but we really truly can't afford the typical celebration. [/quote]

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