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[quote=Anonymous]I am also the more extroverted one in our relationship, and I am on your boyfriend's side.

Your expectations are princessy. You went and showered and were ready to hang out, but he was still doing what he was doing. Where's your respect for his task, his time?

If I had been you last night (which I have), I would've finished the job application, and then gotten up to take a shower. Before I left, I would say, "Hey DH, I'm going to go take a shower and then do you want to talk/have some dinner/watch a movie together/fool around/etc.?" If he said, "That sounds great!" then great. If he said, "I'm pretty tired and kind of just want to read and crash out" then that would also be fine, because his needs are just as valid of mine.

Your BF should apologize for saying unkind things to you. You should apologize for being needy and demanding. You should talk like adults about how to handle these differences of relational style in the future, or your relationship is going to fail.[/quote]

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