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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry OP.  If you can manage to, just write off any money and possessions.  Just assume you won't see any of it and decide it won't matter.

Then, spend as much time with your grandmother now as you can.  When she's having a good day talk with her about some of the things that have great meaning to her.  At some point ask her if you could have something of her to keep with you when you're not able to be with her.  Let her give you something that she chooses and that can have meaning to you.  She can do that when she's still alive and you can bypass all of the family crud and still have something to remember her with when she's gone.

Take pictures with her now.  Ask her to tell stories of her childhood, stories about your mom as a child, etc... Write them down, or record her talking.

All of that will be more precious in ten years time than any possessions.

In terms of her care, you can always call local authorities and ask them to do a well check.

Good luck.[/quote]

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