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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've never taken someone back, but I did break up with someone, have him take me back and then break up with him a year later for the same reason I broke up with him originally. Most people don't break up with people willy-nilly (and if they do, that's reason to run right there), so it's good to question what's changed that made them change their mind other than missing the comfort of the relationship. It wasn't a conscious decision to string him along for that year, I went back to him because I missed him/the relationship, but in the end the issue that caused me to break up with him the first time was still there, we never really dealt with it, and it wasn't something I could just live with.[/quote]

Oh, and should say that the final trigger for the initial break-up was that someone else had come into the picture. But if we didn't have the underlying issue, I don't think I would have broken up with my boyfriend for the other guy. After trying that out for a couple of weeks I realized the other guy wasn't someone I wanted to be with either, missed my ex, and ran back to that relationship without really thinking about it. In retrospect I can appreciate how poor my behavior was, but it truly wasn't a conscious thing at the time. I'm not saying that to try to absolve myself of blame, just to highlight that someone can seem really sincere in their desire to get back together, but that doesn't mean getting back together is a good idea.[/quote]

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