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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cannot believe this is happening.  I met a women on online dating and she is like a model.  We are about the same age (mid 30s) and have been dating for a about a month.  She pretty much opened up to me on how hard it is for her to meet nice guys.  She is literally being hit on even when I'm with her.  The other thing is, and she admitted this, she is high maintenance.  Especially when she was younger.  Now she is trying to be more mature overall.  I think I want to hit the eject button this relationship.  My gut is telling me that down the road her high expectations might come into the equation again.  Not sure if anyone has any experience with this scenario.

Now I have dated women that were attractive in the past, but they were not bombarded by constant attention everywhere.  Not sure if this affects one's personality.[/quote]

This advice will be counterintuitive but do it.

You need to treat this woman like absolute dog shit.    She says she is looking for a "nice guy" but that's bullshit.  She's testing you.  Telling you she's high maintenance is just testing to see if you will be the "nice guy" who will put up with all her crap, but if you do so, she will lose all attraction for you.

Resist every impulse to be her white knight.  Treat her roughly, demand sex and subservience from her, and she will fall in love with you.[/quote]

There's a nugget of truth in this. Perhaps an infinitismally small nugget, but still a nugget.

Here's the real test - can you still be confident and lead this relationship, in spite of all the attention she gets from other guys? If so, you've won her heart. At a certain point, you'll need to show that none of this crap fazes you because you're secure in your yourself and you know that this girl is your's. She wants to be your center of attention and you need to be "man enough" to show that to her. But still, be tough and don't tolerate any bratty behavior from her.[/quote]

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