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[quote=Anonymous](1) how does your mom know what your kids write about in school projects if she is so uninvolved (2) there is some dysfunction here....this triangulation....she tells your sister and your sister tells you....you are lashing back and angry and feel you are being found "at fault" It sounds to me like there's way more going on here than just that she doesn't go to sports games, etc. You say you've "made your peace" with things but it doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you are angry and to me it sounds like its because of stuff that when on when you were a kid, the family dynamics. You sound pretty unthrilled with your mom and she no doubt senses that and reacts to it. I guess what I am saying is, it doesn't sound like "if only mom would make cookies with them" is the answer. It sounds like a whole dynamic and I wonder if you are playing your part in it and if you have looked at that.[/quote]
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