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[quote=Anonymous][quote]"all we do for you" thrown into my face throughout my life if I don't do their bidding.[/quote] They don't own you. Unless you can be bought? Op, deposit the checks in a separate account earmarked "maybe we'll give it back" Don't consider it your money if it comes with strings attached. You want to be able to calmly, respectfully and without (too much) regret, no drama, and certainly no complications, write them a check for and give it back. If you ever do - actually write them out a check (not just say you are going to) If you ever have that scene unfold, the end result will be - they will have tremendous respect for you. Finally. That could completely change the dynamic of the relationship. My guess is you'll never have to do this, and eventually with their passing, you'll have a little nest egg to pass along to the next generation - having learned not to have the same control issues attached. [/quote]
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