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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote: My theory is that most of the kids who are well off are too spoiled and unmotivated. Poverty can be a great motivator. Only someone who has Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs fully met could make such a delusional statement. The only reason you're not in poverty is because your parents were not poor. That's it and explains most socioeconomic outcomes. The vast majority of poor will live hard, grinding, scarring lives. And they will die under the same miserable conditions. Even after being "motivated" and toiling hard for the entirety of their miserable lives. Yes, the vast majority will, but coming from poverty myself, and seeing many others like me, I can tell you from experience that poverty can be a great motivator to do better than your parents. [b]Maybe it's a poor immigrant mentality more so than a strictly poverty mentality.[/b] So many of the kids that get into multiple Ivies with a ton of scholarships are immigrants from poor backgrounds.[/quote] Yes, this is the difference between situational poverty and generational poverty. Immigrants are poor because of external factors and they know that they have everything they need internally to "make it" and so they get into the middle class relatively quickly. Those entrenched in generational poverty don't have the mental, emotional, spiritual, and family resources to get out of it. They also tend to live around each other and do not encourage each other in ways that will get them out of poverty. Immigrants came here with the goal of moving up and they know how to do it. [/quote] Most of the poor immigrants also live in high poverty areas, and most don't speak the language. Many were also very poor in their home countries and have experienced generational poverty there as well. Somehow, though, they and their kids are able to pull themselves out of poverty here in the US. I agree with the other PP - they don't blame anyone for their misfortunes; they just get on with it. [/quote]
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