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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think venting over specific, current situations can be cathartic, but I'm not sure how recording all of the mean things people have to us or our children over the years helps anyone. We all have examples- some extreme- of the terrible things that are said and done to kids with special needs and their parents. Sure, my DS has experienced some bullying and some unkindness. A lot of the unkindness stems from cluelessness about how a child with ADHD and poor executive functioning might behave. As a parent, I would like some opportunity to vent and feel those genuine feelings of frustration and unfairness and fatigue and worry. I am human, and have certainly felt that it is unjust that my son will struggle in ways most of his peers will not-- and gets judged mercilessly for things he cannot help. For the most part, however, my child will do better, if I focus on helping him build skills to better get along in the world. *I* will do better if I can focus the majority of my energy positively by educating other people and achieving some level of inner peace with our situation. [/quote] I'm the PP who wrote this-- I meant it to be positive, not to lecture or to attack people who are feeling low. Typing things out is not great for showing intentions. When I re-read my statement it sounded preachy- not what I was going for. [/quote]
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