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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh, so tough. It would depend for me on how badly DH wanted a child. I would consider reneging on the agreement just because I know how important my kids are to me. Saying that, kids made my marriage a lot more challenging and we fought more, especially when the kids were little and really needy and no one was getting enough sleep. It sounds to me like you already have a lot of potentially challenging dynamics with 3 kids of your own, a new marriage and your new DH finding his place with your kids. [b]Was he a bachelor before? How is he settling into a more of a family lifestyle[/b]? [/quote] Yes this is his first marriage. He was previously in a very long relationship with a woman who ultimately decided she didn't want kids, which is why they never married and eventually split up. He is *such* a good stepdad to my children. He is truly wonderful with them. He is caring and willing to do pick up/drop offs, make dinner, braid hair, help with homework, etc. etc. but he never over steps with them. He is very respectful of the fact that they have their own father. He's kind of like a really good, involved uncle. They live with us half of the week (Sunday through Wednesday).[/quote]
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