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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your agreement going in was no fertility treatment, and that's what I'd stick with. If you had no children or a strong desire for another my answer might be different. If you ended up with a special needs child would you still be glad you spent all that money for something you didn't really really want in the first place? [/quote]

We did agree and he's trying to be fair and honor that but I know this is really bothering him and he'd like to try at least once. I know it makes it worse that the problem comes from "his side" of the equation. I think he feels that it's kind of like rubbing salt in the wound. I wish we could table this for a year or two and reassess then but time is not really on our side here. We've only been married 6 months. I really don't know what to do. My gut says not to do it but I don't want to ruin my marriage over this, you know? And I don't want to deny him something he wants so badly. I feel guilty, like he should have looked for a twenty something girl to have babies with instead of a divorced woman with three children already, kwim? I think he really thought we'd be able to have one baby together and that he'd be satisfied with that.[/quote]

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