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Reply to "Anyone found out their spouse is staying only because of the kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I think a lot of people put up with more and work harder on their marriages when their are children who will be effected by divorcing. [/b]In my case, it's absolutely true I worked much, much harder on my marriage and didn't just throw in the towel because I knew how difficult it would be for my kids. I also cared for my spouse, but I don't think that alone would have been enough to put up with some of the issues we have been through. YMMV[/quote] This is us, and it makes sense. Long term marriages require work. Not fun work. There are ebbs and flows of course. But why put in work into something that should be fun and natural (relationships)? Without the kids, the natural route would be to split and find someone who you don't need to grind it out with.[/quote] I don't think there are very many fun and natural relationships that do not require work. Maybe some people get very lucky. [/quote]
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