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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You didn't say if your father was alive or not. If he is, Mom is his problem not yours. If he isn't alive then tell your siblings how you feel and move on.[/quote]

Dad passed away a long time ago.  He was an angel to put up with her, but often turned a blind eye to the abuse.  To you and the others who have responded so far - thank you from the bottom of my heart.  The issue is not so much a financial one, as my mother has savings and real estate, it's really a matter of time - being with her, arranging and managing the in home care, taking her to appts, etc. The thing is she's going through several helpers, none being good enough and then, back to the drawing board.[/quote]

She's still trying to control you and your siblings and she will continue until she dies. Your enabler siblings will let her do this and it is up to you to put your foot down.  You have suffered her long enough and absolutely must not compromise your emotional well being by being around her. No helper but her abused daughter will do, huh?  Tell that Felicia bye![/quote]

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