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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Other things to consider:
1.  Do you regularly watch the child in the evening so that she can go for a walk?  to the gym?

2.  If you do watch the child so that she can go to the gym, is the gym the only place she is ever allowed to go without the child?  (That was my case at one point:  Hubby would watch the baby so I could go to the gym, but it never occurred to him that I might at some point want to have a cup of coffee, go to a movie without the baby, etc.  Going to the gym started to feel a bit like being let out on parole.)

3.  How much time do you watch the baby on the weekend so that she can go for a nice walk and enjoy the fall weather, etc?

4.  It's really hard to lose weight when your body isn't getting enough sleep.  Are you waking up with the baby at least half the time?

5.  You mentioned ice cream.  It sounds like maybe she's too tired and beat at the end of the day to make herself a healthy treat.  Do you ever buy the groceries?  Do you ever prepare food?  Why don't you help by buying nice fresh fruit and slicing it up so it's available in the refrigerator for all of you to eat?  Go on pinterest and read about how to make packages of frozen fruit so all you need to do is throw it in the blender to make a smoothie.

6.  Offer to help more -- with laundry, cleaning, etc.  I ate a lot when I was angry and resentful because I got no help with the new baby.  If your wife is eating her feelings, you need to stop and consider what those feelings might be.[/quote]

Great suggestions here. OP take note:-)[/quote]

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