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[quote=Anonymous]My thought is that your spouse has the right to see your non-personal mail but not open it is unless it is something legal that impacts both of you like IRS, tax documents, DMV etc., it is really something for the both of you like a quote from a contractor but is addressed to the person taking the lead, or you have worked out a system like one person makes sure all the bills are paid regardless of who it is addressed to or one person thins out the mail and gets rid of anything that is junk mail regardless of who it is addressed to. If my DH got priority mail from an insurance broker, and I had no idea he was looking for insurance, I wouldn't open it but I would ask about it. When we were both looking for life insurance as part of estate planning I don't think it mattered who opened that because it was a joint project/decision. To me it is weird to have to wait until DH comes home to open something that is really for the both of us.[/quote]
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