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[quote=Anonymous]My DH is constantly lying. I feel like I have to become a detective in order to have a conversation with him. 
He drives in to work instead of taking the train, comes home at usual time so I don't realize. It's not a big deal, except that the kids needed the car, went to the station to pick it up and couldn't find it. When I asked DH, he got very defensive. But why not drop a quick text..hey I took the car in today. Its not like he doesn't text me during the day.
It varies between ludicrous, and major lies, or lies by omission. It is to the point that I am questioning myself. I don't even want to talk to him because he will definitely lie. If I call him on it, he will say "I meant to say," or "You misunderstood me." As soon as that starts I don't want to hear it. It will become an argument if I try to say, but you said this and then you said that..
He will say he doesn't buy coffee, he prepares it before he leaves the house. I respond with "Oh I thought you pick up Starbucks."  He says, "Well that's when I get off the train." WTH? Why would you even say that? Don't say anything if you feel the need to lie!
Also, its not like I am nagging or badgering "where are you?" "What are you doing?"
 He seems very phony and distant lately and will ask me how my day was and then ask me the same question an hour later. Our conversations are very stilted. I am having trouble even explaining it.

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