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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If it's too much, then discuss with DW what months or time frames you don't want any visitors. If the family asks to visit during those times you both need to jointly say we have blocked off x months/time for family time. I can understand how monthly visits can take a tool. Maybe 1 visitor every other month and not on the months that you go out of town to visit your family or DW family.[/quote] OP here. [b]I've tried this but DW is a bit of a pushover when it comes to family visits and does not stick to our careful plans! (even though we've literally spent hours planning their visits with a calendar in front of us!). DW gives into the guilt-tripping and "they're not going to be around forever."[/b] [/quote] Once again, you don't have a visiting in-law problem, you have a DW problem.[/quote] Tell DW to schedule at least some of the visits while you're traveling![/quote]
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