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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your parents were wanting to visit under the same circumstances would you be fine with your husband telling them they should not?[/quote] Not op. PP life is not FAIR. Only children adhere to this immature everything-must-be-tit-for-tat-in-our-families mentality. You seem to pop up with this craziness in every post about in laws. My guess is you are a mil or fil who feel your children must give you exactly the same amount of facetime as the other in laws. No. People are different. Some are wonderful and some are unbearable. There is no "law" that things have to be equal. [/quote] Not the poster you were referring to and still have little kids so no a MIL , but time and again, we see posts by DIL's wanting one set of rules and acts of tolerance for their families and a different set for their DH's. Perhaps this describes you. In any event, this is not a tit-for-tat situation, but a question of whether the poster is taking a less tolerant approach to her inlaws than she would to her own family.[/quote]
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