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Reply to "Domestic violence - is it inevitable in every relationship?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Well, I do think so OP and here's why. Someone's violence isn't generally about the victim. It's about the person committing the violence. If it were about the victim, victims could change their behavior and the violence would stop - but that's not what happens. Victims change their behavior and the violence continues, as the person committing violence will find something else to be controlling about. So another way of asking this question is: "was the violence he committed years ago the victim's fault?" The answer is generally no, right? No one deserves to be abused. So that's my take. Someone who has determined that violence is acceptable in any form generally doesn't change without intensive intervention. It's just not a risk worth taking.[/quote]
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