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[quote=Anonymous]When  I read the topic heading I was about to say do you mean participate as in veto action and feedback, yes he does.  Do you mean participate as in research and planning, I do the bulk of it but if it involves seeing his family he reaches out to his family. I'm not frustrated because vacation planning is my wheelhouse and DH has plenty of things in his.  I've yet to take my car for an oil change or service since I've been married to DH.  He also does grocery shopping and cooking.  With vacations, we generally like the same things.e. Big cities instead of beaches, meat and potatoes type. The things that one person really likes, for example baseball, the other person will go along with, or for example DH took one child  to a baseball game and I figured out something to do with the child that didn't really want to go.

I'm just making a shot in the dark, are you not happy with the general division of labor and this is one more thing that you feel if it is on your shoulders to do everything you want to do it without input OR is it something in the way you two interact like the person that says nothing until the 11th hour creating more work for you OR provides feedback in an unpleasant manner?[/quote]

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