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[quote=Anonymous]Not wrong at all! In fact, you really could bow out of hosting Christmas too--or shorten it! (Blame your OB, saying you need to slow down and rest.) And for heaven's sake, there's no "insisting" that they be there for the birth. That's up to you and DH. *Tell* them that you'd much prefer they come for a brief visit the day after surgery (if that's ok with you) or whenever. If your parents aren't coming until mid-January, they have no place to be difficult about it--if you'd rather they come after you've settled at home for a couple days, that's fine too! Do what is right for you and DH within the bounds of common decency. And the bounds of common decency cover a lot of ground. :)[/quote]
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