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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He will have trouble being happy in your marriage. It will only get worse after kids. He's turning you down because he is probably hesitating on TTC and feels you are using him. You only have sex every other day for a baby. Never any other time. That would make me feel unhappy.[/quote]

This is insane.

TTC and toddler stress are likely the issue. Getting rejected by your spouse sucks, which he knows because he's been turned down by you. Carry on.[b] Don't add any pressure to him by getting upset about it[/b]. It sucks, but it's part of a sexual relationship from time to time. Reevaluate if this continues. [/quote]

I hope I didn't already add pressure by getting upset. I didn't make a huge deal, but did tell him that I knew it was not reasonable (on my part to get upset) and that it was perfectly normal for him to feel like declining in those circumstances, but that it feels rough just because it's never happened before. I'll try to "stay cool" about it going forward and hope it dissipates, or else adjust.

Next month I may let him know when we've reached the TTC portion of the month, but let the onus fall on him to decide frequency within that time period. I'll just approach it as any other week on my part. I did say to him already that maybe we pushed a little too hard these past two months on the TTC, that maybe that's not the best approach for us.  [/quote]

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