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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]GET OUT NOW. DO NOT HAVE KIDS. Don't be in the position I am, which is where this is going. It will only get worse. My husband has complete control over our finances now - it was an ongoing process that just got worse and worse. I have no access to money at all. He takes my paycheck. I'm not allowed to purchase anything exce pt gas for my car. I have to make requests, and if he approves, he will purchase for me. It's a form of abuse, and other forms of abuse will likely follow for you in the future. Please please don't let yourself get into my position. I have 2 small children and am pretty trapped but trying to plan on how to get out. OP, please take my warning to heart. Your situation will only get worse. You are still young, get out now while you still have a chance of rebuilding your life and finding a partner who you deserve. [/quote] OP and PP--you both need to get out. I'm sorry you're going through this. PP you can get out and keep your kids and be ok. If DH is taking care of all your expenses, a good divorce attorney will make sure he keeps doing so. You can do it. Good luck.[/quote]
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