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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe this isn't the best place to ask, but I don't know where else to go.

I was at a birthday party last week and met a really nice lady, we really hit it off. Later my friend whose party it was came over and asked her about her transition and they started chatting about it. My jaw dropped for a moment and I almost said "Wow, I had no idea." but of course didn't because I didn't know if it was rude or not. In my mind I was thinking "holy shit you look amazing and I would have had no idea had I not been told."

I talked to my friend about it later and he (a gay male btw - so he may or may not get it I don't know) said she would have been really flattered and I should have said something, but I am not so sure. Would it have been rude? She and I are going to have lunch soon, we both share the same hobby. If we do become friends like I hope we do, would it be okay to tell her? Or is that hurtful and taboo?

I am trying to navigate new territory here, please be kind. Also I don't care if you think people who are transgender are weirdos or whatever, I like my new friend.[/quote]

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