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[quote=Anonymous]I have been broken up with my on and off again ex for about 4 years now. When we first started dating things were cool but I soon found out that the majority of what he was saying was fabrication of the truth. For example I didn't know he had a car until I woke up one day and saw him driving off. However he did have his own apartment but this didn't last for long because he was kicked out due to some "program" that they had him under in which he said he didn't sign up for.

Soon after he was kicked out his apartment he then looked for a room to rent. During the time period that he was staying at the room he was renting, I was making sure he was getting to and from work because his car stopped working. This also didn't last for long. As a result, he ended up switching jobs and moving in with one of his co workers. I was often letting him use my car to get to and from work at the time the car was my mothers and come to find out his license was suspended and had been for a while. I was very hurt that he didn't tell me and when confronted he made up an excuse.

While he was living with his friend he then found out that he had a daughter who was 3 years old so he decided to break up with me and make things work with his child's mother whom he didn't know. This was a one night stand years ago which resulted in a baby that he knew nothing about. Long story short with this, she wanted to get in contact with him only to put him on child support. Sooo after this situation went south he contact me and wanted to get back together. Stupid me agreed and thought things would really work this time boy was I wrong.

He then moved yet again with another friend and this didn't last for long. He would tell them he was only staying for a few months but months turned into an extended period of time.

Currently he is living with his family member and he says he has a great job and he wants me back. He also said at the time he wasn't ready for a serious relationship and I asked him why would he stay with me then because I was not forcing him. I guess my question is should I take him back or just leave him in the past. I told him I do not trust him at all considering his patter and inconsistency.

Also another side note, when we were together he would always claim that he had money but his card would always decline. I figured out his account information and discovered that his account was constantly in the negative. Along with his living situation and him being financially unstable I feel as though I should leave him alone. [/quote]

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