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[quote=Anonymous]It is a hard situation. My first priority is that my child is safe and loved and I am willing to take her extra time to make sure that happens, but my ex is responsible and will sometimes help me out in a pinch. What would happen if you just said no, said "well I guess you'll need to find a sitter," or didn't pick up your phone? Do you think ex would actually put your son in a dangerous situation? Some tough love might help him shape up or decide the parenting thing isn't for him-although I understand that you don't want to put your kid in a vulnerable situation while you find out how ex will react. If he'll just be pissed at you and bitch and moan, I would be really firm and refuse to cover. If you feel like he would actually do something sketchy, I would keep doing what you're doing and/or seek full custody. Sucks.[/quote]
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