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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is completely reasonable to say that you can't afford a $10,000 vacation. Would they be willing to consider a resort that is within driving distance of where you live, so that you can drive, rather than fly? Maybe something like: "Dear family, As much as we enjoy our family gatherings, we will not be able to finance plane tickets for 6, a rental car and a resort for a week. If you would be willing to consider a vacation that we could drive to (pick something to suggest), we will try to make it work. Otherwise, we look forward to joining the family next year. Best, Tracy and George"[/quote] I like this. I cannot imagine a "stink" arising from this (but you know your family), and it is in no way defensive. It is stating the facts which, when in doubt, one should do. It is tactful as well. [/quote]
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