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[quote=Anonymous]Is it an every day thing? If so, I understand your reservations, but if not, you might stretch yourself to do it, but be clear up front about boundaries. As in:

"Hi Betty's mom. I really want to help you out, but am worried about our ability to do so as we've got a lot on our plate in the mornings and some health issues we are dealing with. (if you are comfortable Bringing this up). If there's someone else who can help get Betty to school, that would probably be a better fit, but if not, I can pick Betty up on our way on Tuesdays and Thursday's. If I send a text when we leave, can you have her ready and waiting at the door?"

If it's really only a matter of running by her house a couple days a week, it's likely to be little skin off your back, and I've found that doing my part in the neighborhood 'village' has only been a good thing. I'm part of a much more complicated carpool deal, which I had major reservations about initially, but which has ended up being great for all parties - especially for the sense of community it has led to in our neighborhood. Of course though, if just the thought of it overwhelms you, it's better to just say no than to be resentful.[/quote]

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