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[quote=Anonymous]DH is low-drive...like, very low drive. Doesn't self satisfy, isn't physically affectionate toward me, and really isn't very interested in sex. We could go a couple of months without if it were up to him... But he'll do it because I keep saying what a priority it needs to be for us, our marriage, that I'm worried, etc. I don't think I can continue like this...but feel trapped. He's a good person most of the time, and I've created a very secure home life for our kids which I won't disrupt. I want to be an honorable person to all parties involved, but feel like I'm living a lie...am dying inside. DH is not very approachable in this way. I don't want him to feel anxiety about sex...I think it will make the situation worse. I also think he'll be angry and offended if I ask him to have his testosterone checked. I really don't know what to do. Any advice from those who have discussed these issues with their male partners? How do you live with the cordial, nice marriage with no intimacy? It would be easier to deal with, honestly, if we weren't generally so respectful toward one another.[/quote]

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