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[quote=Anonymous]Oh for heaven's sake, OP - ignore the previous posters who conclude he is having an affair.  Let me give you the inside scoop.

I have a circle of about 10 friends.  About half or so have cheated, a couple of them do it every opporunity, a coulple of them have had one offs but don't look for it.  Half don't and likely won't.

First - the fact he told you makes it less likely he is cheating.  If he had something to hide, he wouldn't raise your suspicions.  For my part, I would NEVER tell my DH if one of my friends are screwing around.  Two reasons.  First, I think its cruel to burden her with that knowledge, especially if she knows the wife.  It puts her in a bind of tell or don't tell.  And for the cheated on wife, how much worse is it for her that everyone knows but her.  Second, we take guys trips, and for my own selfish interest, why do I want my wife thinking there is infidelity going on even if it doesn't affect me.

So your husband probably picked up your scorn for his friends and perhaps realized his telling you makes it harder for him to hang out with them so he is backtracking.  And yes, he broke the bro code.  But he is probably not cheating.[/quote]

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