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[quote=Anonymous]Please keep it: my sister-in-law and brother have asked my mother to stop giving their children any gifts or money other than the ones they (my SIL and brother) have approved. They have also given away major gifts that meant a lot to my mom and told her about it, which crushed her all over again. For some older people, gift giving is their 'love language.' If you are truly uncomfortable, put it in a savings account for the future or for a charitable gift in her memory when she is gone. I've seen the devastation that the refusals have brought my mom, and so your post hits home in my asking you to think through what keeping this costs both you and your grandma, literally and metaphorically. [/quote]
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