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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. DH is perfectly fine with the long visits because he just ignores his mother. I've tried to explain that it effects my work days and end up looking like the bad guy. MIL is partially helpful but oversteps ALL. THE. TIME. She will put the 1 year old in bed with her. Let the older two wake up at 5 am to start playing. Will Feng Shui the house when I'm not paying attention (hang crazy stuff up, moves stuff around without permission). She'll cook but leave a huge mess in my kitchen. It will take me hours to clean up. After she left in May, it took me 5 hours to deep clean my small kitchen. It's so much extra work. I've asked to limit the trip to Thanksgiving only and reserve Christmas for my out of town family (my stepfather is dying of cancer and I want/need to be flexible if my own mother would like to visit). [/quote] Hotel. [/quote]
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