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[quote=Anonymous]Your husband is nice and shy, as you say. You're more of a hardass-- demanding, competitive, perfectionistic, and very competent. You're an alpha and he's a beta. He probably feels like you can sweep in and do everything better and then criticize and belittle him, to boot, so he gives up more and more. I'd say there are things that could be done, things to improve his mental and physical health, changes to be made in the dynamic so that the positive gets brought out instead of all negatives. However, you really seem to despise him. Contempt is a relationship killer. You're done. Just put him out of his misery. [/quote]
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