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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop doing so much around the house.  I told my DH upfront I'm not breaking my back to cook an clean.  It can be a joint effort or it won't be done.  And yes he needs to go to therapy because your husband obviously has depression. [/quote]

I tried this and the house was a mess for two weeks.  I eventually broke because seeing my little girl walking around in a dirty house broke my heart.  I grew up with a spotless house and a mom who always had a delicious meal ready with fresh baked cookies.  I cherish those memories and don't want my daughter to be denied that because her father doesn't mind living in filth.[/quote]

If you're making good $, is it in the budget to hire a cleaning company and/or good meal delivery services?[/quote]

PP here - not that this solves the deeper problems, but it could at least give you a bit more breathing room and get closer to the kind of home environment you want without exhausting yourself completely. It's a hard rut to come out of for sure, and I wish you the best.[/quote]

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