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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure if it is enhanced by the pheromones or the adrenaline, but I (yes, a married woman) have this crazy attraction to a man at the gym.  We have not spoken, and I really don't want to...in fact, I am almost afraid of him in that way.  It started with a passing look that was electric, and ever since then there has been these knowing exchanges of looks at the gym.  I know this is insane.  I have a great husband, and I would not cheat on him.  But, this is such an intense attraction -- completely physical, but the kind that stays with you all day.  I have never looked forward to the gym so much, but when I go I feel both guilty and almost skittish.  It's like a magnetic pull to this person, and I think he feels it too.  He gets closer and closer...

Do any of you have similar experiences?      [/quote]

These attractions are what make the routine boredom of monogamy bearable.

Is the crush married?  You may not be able to tell by whether he has a ring.  I do not wear my ring at the gym because it cuts into my finger when I am lifting weights.  Do you wear your ring?  Point being, if he knows you are married (and if he is married) he will assume this is harmless but fun flirtation.  If on the other hand he thinks or would have reason to believe you are single, you may be giving him false signals.

I say enjoy the crush, flirt all you want - it motivates you to get in shape and you will have a sex drive for your husband.  I would be totally fine with my wife flirting at the gym if I got the benefits.  Heck, I would role play being your gym crush and fuck my wife senseless.[/quote]

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