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[quote=Anonymous]I totally understand how you feel. And here's the thing - if you do contribute, what happens when the medical bills are paid off? Do they start paying back their friends? Or do they continue to live their lives. If you did contribute, what would happen when a year later, they take a vacation, buy a new car or enroll one of the kids in an expensive activity? I'm guessing you'd be pissed. I would be. (I contributed to a fund to buy someone a car after she had an accident. When I later found out the accident was because she was texting AND drunk, I was really pissed. I wanted to take my money back. And when she went back to her spendthrift habits afterward, including doing all sorts of things I don't do because of expense, I was even more annoyed.)[/quote]
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