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[quote=Anonymous] I'm sorry for your loss, OP. A part of your history died. Your father took with him the opportunity you had to understand your earliest years and your biological heritage. That's a significant loss. Money is never about money. Do you want to visit his household or see the life he built? If so, I encourage you to do so. Your question about money could be a placeholder for other needs, especially since you state upfront that the money wouldn't change your circumstance considerably. I learned so much about my parents after they died, is that what you're looking for an opportunity to "know" him in some tangible way? Maybe a therapist or good friend could help you think this through? Grief takes many forms and despite the very limited contact you had with your father, it doesn't take away from the loss you are experiencing. I encourage you to consider this as you make your decisions. [/quote]
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