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[quote=Anonymous]You need to separate a couple of different things. You need to accept that DD is bisexual. This is your daughter who you love, and this is who she thinks she is. So tell her you love her and accept her.

The reality is, school is starting soon. Get DD busy. Push her to get into a sport and a club and another after-school activity. Encourage and facilitate friendships with other girls. Basically, dilute the Alpha's importance. Without mentioning the Alpha, have conversations with DD about mean girls, how friends treat each other, qualities we look for in friends, etc. Let HER make the decision to pull away from the Alpha.

Talk to her about homosexuality the same way black parents have to talk to their kids about being black in public. Some people are VERY prejudice, and it's completely wrong, but you need to protect yourself from these people. Suggest ways she can find out friends views on homosexuality and bisexuality BEFORE coming out to them. Suggest that she think VERY hard about coming out to friends who tend to gossip.

But tell her it's okay that she's bisexual and you always love and accept her.[/quote]

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