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[quote=Anonymous]A little background:  We are relatively new to the area and DD(12) has had friends in past but mostly an introvert.  Well she met two girls in the neighborhood and they hit it off really well.  Fast forward about 5 months and they are constantly fighting in this triangle.  She is very close to The Alpha girl and when they fight Alpha tells Beta to not talk to her as well.

I knew this was happening but figured some of this is normal but I just got to read some text messages from Alpha during a fight.  Told DD terrible things such as shut up, go away, you don't want to make me angry because I will always win in a fight etc... Really just mean stuff.  Alpha is in position of power and knows it and can withhold her friendship and influence beta girl too.

Now the absolute worst part.  Dd tells me she is bisexual and has a crush on the alpha.  I was floored.  I JUST found out about the way she talks to my daughter and now I get slammed with this.  I am really having a hard time accepting the fact that my DD likes a girl.  Especially one that I don't like.  I would love to have her end this friendship completely for all the reasons above but I don't want to lose my daughter's fragile trust in confiding in me in the first place.  However, I am terrified that this bully will tell everyone and my daughter will be teased.  I guess there is nothing I can do to control what the other girl does but they are always fighting and I know it is only a matter of time before alpha holds this against her.  Wtf am I going to do?  Alpha is one of just a few friends she has btw so I would be essentially be cutting out her entire social life if I force her to end friendship with this toxic person.
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