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[quote=Anonymous]I was hurting so much so I told more people than I probably should have. I first told two close friends, and then after a week or so when I just couldn't hold it together anymore I ended up telling my mother. I also told some co-workers - I couldn't keep my composure at work some days so I let some people know what was going on. Luckily I work in a small office? Now there is a possible reconciliation, and I wish fewer people knew. I hate feeling like I am being judged for considering taking back a cheater. It was a one night stand and he feels awful, but the past month or so being apart was really hard on me emotionally so thats why I started telling people. I needed some support. In hindsight, I wish I started going to a therapist right away after I found out. I still haven't started seeing someone, but am still considering it. Best of luck, OP. [/quote]
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