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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guest room, but honestly I wouldn't end a marriage over smoking weed. [/quote]

It's the lying and deceiving that is the real issue.  But I can't be with someone who is high every day.  [/quote]

Sounds like he is addicted. Getting someone who is addicted to agree to something like only once a month is guaranteed to fail and a certainty that you will be lied too. Frankly, that shouldn't even be at issue here...the lying...what should be is his need to get high everyday and how you feel about it.[/quote]

You're absolutely right. And I grew up in a house where my dad was an addict and high every day (weed too). So while I am in shock at how I am repeating the patterns that damaged me so much as a child, I know I can't live with it. And I don't want to put my children through it either.    I can't live with someone who needs to be high every day,  and I don't think I can ever change my stance on that.   I think he now has to decide what he is going to do, but of course that's not going to happen overnight, and so I'm a little perplexed as to how to handle these immediate next steps.[/quote]

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